9/5/2023 0 Comments Tapping tree form for eft![]() ![]() That's why we appear to have different limits. We all have different words on our walls. Nonetheless, they still seem to have a hold on our progress. Upon inspection many of them are laughable. Many of them are hand-me-downs from our parents, grandparents, teachers, coaches, religion, peers, books, TV and an endless list of other "authorities" in our lives. They represent the attitudes, opinions & beliefs that we have accumulated over the years. The words on our walls are metaphors for our self talk, of course. In fact, there is scarcely any part of our makeup that is not affected by what's written on those walls. They are reflected in our careers, our incomes, our relationships, and even our self image. Why? Because our cans and can'ts are written on those walls and we obey those dictates as though they were real. We stay within the familiar (our comfort zones) and don't venture beyond the walls (limits) of the rooms we have chosen. They are for richer people and more privileged people and people with more talent than us. Somehow, we don't "belong" in those other, more expansive rooms. Rather, it's that we choose to dwell only in those rooms within which we are comfortable. It's not that we are barred from any of the rooms. These rooms are open to everyone, although most of us only visit a few of them. It is an ever expanding structure, filled with awesome rooms and annexes that are loaded with achievements and joy. The rest of this article has been compiled from my previous writings on the Writing on our Walls concept and includes video discussions for illustration. Every question I ask, every direction I choose to go, every test I perform, and every bit of language I use comes from that perspective, so understanding it will help you get a lot more out of EFT. ![]() When I work with clients, my understanding of their issues is based on the Writing on their Walls. To me, it explains perfectly how the events in our lives create our beliefs about the world, and how those beliefs can either pose limits or open new possibilities.Īs I was developing EFT, this metaphor was already second nature to me. I have personal experience with all of the theories, and have experimented with my own version of those theories for decades.Įventually I came up with a metaphor that makes perfect sense to me and I call it the Writing on our Walls. That journey has exposed me to a wide variety of theories about why people have the challenges they face and what it might take to overcome them. I have been a student of personal improvement and human behavior since I was a teenager. An Ideal EFT Tapping Metaphor For Why We Behave As We Do ![]()
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